(Social Emotional Learning Skills That Actually Stick) We Reset Goals — But Forget Behavior January is full of good intentions. We reset our schedules. We reset our routines. We reset our goals. But what rarely gets reset? The way we show up socially. Tone. Timing. Listening. Interrupting. Reacting quickly instead of thoughtfully. And those small habits — not the big, dramatic moments — are what quietly shape our relationships all year long. Why Micro-Skills Matter More Than

“Just try harder next time.” It sounds reasonable. Responsible, even. And yet… it rarely works. As adults, we often default to phrases like do better , make better choices , or you know better than that  — especially when kids (or teens) repeat the same behaviors we’ve already addressed. But here’s the truth most people don’t realize: Wanting to do better and knowing how  to do better are two very different things. And kids — even well-intentioned ones — are often missing the