You pick your kid up and every report says the day went fine. They followed the rules, they shared, they used their inside voice. Then the car door closes, or the front door opens, and they come completely undone. Tears over the wrong colored cup. Fury over a sock seam. A meltdown that seems to land out of a clear blue sky. Here is the first thing I want you to hear. You are not doing anything wrong. This particular meltdown is actually a strange kind of compliment. What Afte