Most people get Memorial Day wrong. Not because they mean to. Not because they do not care. But because no one ever taught them the difference, and the difference matters. Every year, my inbox starts filling up with cheerful “Happy Memorial Day!” messages. Sale emails plastered with American flags. Beach photos with red, white, and blue captions. And while I know every single one of those messages comes from a kind place, none of them quite fit the day they are honoring. So t