There is a specific look a parent gives you when they hand your kid back the morning after a sleepover. The smile that is slightly too tight. The “they were great” that lands a beat too quickly. That is the look that means your kid was not actually great. They were not bad enough to ban from future invites either. They were somewhere in between. They were under-prepared. If you have caught that look, you are not alone. Most kids walk into their first dozen sleepovers without

Three weeks into summer, you start to notice things. The kid who has eight school friends suddenly does not have anyone to text. The one who is great at recess looks lost at the neighborhood pool. The bubbly one comes home from a playdate quiet, and you can tell something happened but you cannot get it out of them. This is the part of summer no one warns you about. School ends, and so does a lot of the structure that holds your kid’s friendships together. Recess. Lunch tables