Someone you love asks you for something. You say no. Suddenly, you are the bad guy. If you have ever felt that whiplash, you are in the right place. Boundaries with family are some of the hardest work an adult will ever do, and most of us were never taught how. We were taught to say please and thank you, write thank you notes, and not interrupt. Nobody walked us through what to do when someone we love is asking for something we cannot give. This one is a long read. Save it fo